The Let Them Theory

A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

The Let Them Theory is a step-by-step guide on how to stop letting other people's opinions, drama, and judgment impact your life. Two simple words, Let Them, will set you free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. It’s time to build a life where you come first—your dreams, your goals, your happiness.

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What Is The Let Them Theory?

Mel Robbins, New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned podcast host, introduces The Let Them Theory—a groundbreaking approach to reclaiming your life by focusing on what you can control and releasing what you can’t.

The Let Them Theory helps you prioritize what truly matters and put yourself first. Through relatable stories and science-backed strategies, Robbins provides a toolkit to rediscover your inner power, transform your relationships, and find the happiness you deserve.

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Get to Know Mel

New York Times Best Selling Author

Mel Robbins is a New York Times best-selling author and a world-renowned expert on mindset, motivation, and behavior change, whose work has been translated into 41 languages. With millions of books sold, seven #1 Audible titles, and billions of video views, Mel’s impact is truly global.

As the host of The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the top-ranked podcasts in the world, Mel empowers listeners in 194 countries every day. Known for her ability to simplify complex topics into simple daily actions, The Let Them Theory is Mel Robbins’ most powerful and profound work yet.

The Let Them Theory Book Tour

Meet Mel and get your book signed on her FIRST EVER in-person book tour. Tickets are limited. More dates to be announced soon.

NEW YORK

Meet Mel at Barnes & Noble Fifth Avenue: Tuesday, January 7, 2025 · 12PM ET

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LOS ANGELES

Meet Mel at Barnes & Noble The Grove: Thursday, January 9, 2025 · 7PM PT

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NEW JERSEY

Meet Mel at Bookends Ridgewood:
Monday, January 6, 2025 · 6PM ET

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BOSTON: SOLD OUT

Meet Mel at Big Night Live: Wednesday, January 22, 2025 · 6PM ET

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Frequently Asked Questions

Where can I buy The Let Them Theory?

The Let Them Theory is available at your favorite retailer, including Amazon, Audible, Barnes and Noble, and more. If the book is sold out at one retailer, then check the other ones as well to see where books are available.

Is there an audiobook?

Yes, there is an audiobook, read by Mel! You can pre-order it exclusively on Audible.

When will my copy arrive after I order it?

Each retailer ships on their own schedule – please reach out to the store that you ordered the book with to find out about shipping.

Where else can I learn about the Let Them Theory?

You can get bonus Let Them content on Mel’s Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, and on The Mel Robbins Podcast.

Can I get The Let Them Theory in languages other than English?

Yes, The Let Them Theory will be published in a variety of languages, and those links will be coming soon! Get on Mel’s newsletter list below to get notified when other languages are available for pre-order. 

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