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The Let Them Theory

A life-changing tool millions of people can’t stop talking about.

The Let Them Theory is a step-by-step guide on how to stop letting other people's opinions, drama, and judgment impact your life. Two simple words, Let Them, will set you free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. It’s time to build a life where you come first—your dreams, your goals, your happiness.

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4 million copies

What's The Let Them Theory?

What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words – Let Them – will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.


"It's everything I was trying to say for 25 years... one of the best self-help books I've ever read."

— Oprah Winfrey



Exclusive Bonus Chapters for The Let Them Theory

Leadership Guide: Co-authored by Mel Robbins, and business coach, David Gerbitz, this bonus chapter delivers actionable tactics for leaders, managers, and coaches. Apply decades of real-world experience to elevate teams of all sizes.

Parenting Guide: This essential 13-page resource, created by Mel and Harvard's Dr. Stuart Ablon (Director of Think:Kids at MGH), provides specific strategies for parents, grandparents, teachers, and coaches to build confidence and resilience in children.


See Mel Live at the Let Them Tour

Don't miss the chance to see Mel live for Let Them The Tour. New shows have been added but tickets are going fast.


International Editions

The Let Them Theory will be available from publishers in the following languages, formats, and dates. This table updated regularly:

PrintAudioeBook
English - USHay HouseAudibleHay House
English - UKHay House UKAudibleHay House UK
AlbanianAlbasAlbas
ArabicJarirJarirJarir
BrazilRecordAudibleRecord
Bulgaria
(6/25)
OzoneOzone
Catalan
(4/25)
Ara LibresAra LibresAra Libres
Croatian
(9/25)
VBZVBZVBZ
CzechEuromediaEuromedia
DanishMemorisMemorisMemoris
DutchKosmosKosmosKosmos
Estonia
(11/25)
Rahva RaamatRahva RaamatRahva Raamat
FinnishGummerasGummerasGummeras
French
(4/25)
LeducAudibleLeduc
GeorgianPalitra LPalitra LPalitra L
German
(5/25)
GoldmannAudibleGoldmann
Greek
(5/25)
DioptraDioptraDioptra
HebrewMatarMatarMatar
Hindi, Marathi, Tamil, Telugu, Gujarati, Bengali, Kannada, and MalayalamManjulManjulManjul
Hungarian
(9/25)
Good Life BooksGood Life BooksGood Life Books
IcelandicBergmalBergmalBergmal
IndonesianPT GramediaPT Gramedia
Italian
(5/25)
Newton ComptonAudibleNewton Compton
JapaneseASA PublishingAudibleASA Publishing
Korean
(9/25)
The Business Books and Co.The Business Books and Co.
LatvianZvaigzne ABCZvaigzne ABCZvaigzne ABC
Lithuanian
(7/25)
MijalbaAudiotekaMijalba
Macedonian
(6/25)
AntalogAntalog
MalayAce PremierAce PremierAce Premier
MongolianTBDTBDTBD
NorwegianAschehougAschehougAschehoug
Polish
(4/25)
GalaktykaGalaktykaGalaktyka
PortuguesePortoAudiblePorto
Romanian
(4/25)
Editura TreiEditura TreiEditura Trei
RussianSophiaSophiaSophia
SerbianTBDTBDTBD
Simplified Chinese
(8/25)
CITICCITICCITIC
SlovakianCitadellaCitadellaCitadella
Slovenian
(8/25)
PrimusPrimus
Spanish
Argentina (6/25)
Brazil (7/25)
Chile (5/25)
Columbia (5/25)
Mexico (5/25)
Portugal (8/25)
Peru (5/25)
Uruguay (6/25)
USA (6/25)
CupulaAudibleCupula
SwedishYour LifeYour LifeYour Life
TaiwanPing'sPing's
ThaiAmarinAmarin
TurkeyIndigoIndigo
UkranianViviatViviatViviat
VietnameseFirst NewsFirst NewsFirst News
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